7 Daily Journal Prompts
Self-Care Aimee Baron Self-Care Aimee Baron

7 Daily Journal Prompts

Sometimes the heaviest thoughts are the hardest to say out loud, but they can feel a little lighter once they’re on paper

We’re sharing a selection of journal prompts over the next two weeks to help you navigate this season

If you’d like to have all 30 days of prompts and ready-to-use pages, you can find it at the link in bio and in stories ❤️

Processing | Healing | Journaling | Support | Community | Hope | Self Care

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Surrendering is self care
Self-Care Aimee Baron Self-Care Aimee Baron

Surrendering is self care

Planning can feel like the only thing keeping us afloat
But when we stop, the silence can feel terrifying

It is so heavy to carry the weight of “what if” for so many years
Your spent from being in limbo

Choosing to surrender or pause doesn’t mean you’re giving up
It might just mean you’re taking care of yourself

Waiting | Exhaustion | Neshama | Support | Limbo | Hope

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11 things that count as self care
Self-Care Aimee Baron Self-Care Aimee Baron

11 things that count as self care

Self-care doesn’t always have to be a big production

When you are navigating a heavy season, sometimes the most restorative thing you can do is find small ways to pause amidst the noise

Give yourself permission to just be

Swipe through for these small ways to choose yourself today

You don’t have to do it all to be doing enough

Self Care | Validation | Waiting | Grief | Permission | Community | Rest

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Spoon Theory
Infertility, Self-Care Aimee Baron Infertility, Self-Care Aimee Baron

Spoon Theory

Have you heard of spoon theory? It’s the idea that pain, whether emotional or physical, and chronic illness impact a person’s ability to do different daily activities and that each activity costs a certain amount of “spoons”.

Healthy people have unlimited spoons each day and don’t need to think twice about how to use their spoons. But people experiencing pain, chronic illness, or infertility have to be aware of how many spoons they have each day and plan accordingly.

This might look like saying no to Chanukah parties in order to save spoons for making and eating dinner that night.

Spoon theory empowers people to set boundaries to safeguard their mental and physical wellbeing. It’s a reminder to save some spoons to take care of yourself.

We have a limited amount of spoons each day - don’t use any on people or situations that bring you down and wear you out.

Do you think spoon theory is a helpful tool for you? What are some “spoons” you chose to do this time of year?

Spoon theory, self-care, boundaries, infertility, fertility treatment, workplace culture, worklife balance, pregnancy loss, stillbirth

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This year, forgive…
Self-Care, Emotional Support Aimee Baron Self-Care, Emotional Support Aimee Baron

This year, forgive…

When you’re struggling to build your family, it’s so easy to get caught in a cycle of judgment. We judge ourselves for not being “strong enough.” We judge our partners. We judge friends who mean well but say the wrong thing. Sometimes, we even judge life itself for being so unfair.

This journey can send us into panic and desperation, riding an emotional rollercoaster that takes our self-esteem up and down. And before we know it, we’re stuck in the blame game—blaming ourselves, others, or anyone in reach.

As we enter the holidays, we want to invite you to think about forgiveness—not as some grand, sweeping gesture, but as a gentle starting point. Forgiving ourselves for not being perfect. Forgiving others for fumbling their words or not understanding. Forgiving the idea that this process has to look a certain way.

Take a moment to recognize just how much you’ve already carried. Remind yourself that you’re human, and you’ve shown tremendous strength in simply continuing forward, no matter how hard it’s been.
And one more thing: please forgive us, too. We know we haven’t always been everything you needed this year.

💔Sometimes your messages went unanswered, or took too long.

💔Sometimes a program, a post, or a speaker didn’t land right.

💔Sometimes our words might have hurt when we wanted them to comfort.

For those moments, we are deeply sorry. Our intention has always been to hold you with love and remind you that you are seen and not alone.

Xoxo,
Aimee

Forgiveness | high holidays | Yom Kippur | fertility support | Jewish fertility | Jewish holiday | day of forgiveness | ivf | miscarriage | stillbirth

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Cheat Sheet

Cheat Sheet

Last week, we started creating a new “cheat sheet” series for different points in a fertility journey and for moments in the Jewish calendar that can feel especially heavy. Each one has practical ideas for getting through. (More coming next week!)

The plan was to post this today, but I was too overwhelmed with the news and needed to lean on my own advice to be able to show up here again.

I got outside and walked a bit. Drank some water. Had some yummy babka. Texted a friend. Decided not to do any cooking for RH today. And just let my mind veg.

Because the world is so heavy right now that I just couldn’t.

And when you can’t either, here’s something you can come back to.

#emotionallydrained #selfcarematters #feelingdrained #miscarriage #tfmr #adoption #donorconceived #ivf #jewishcommunity #jewishwomen #secondaryinfertility #childlessnotbychoice

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Thinking of you

Thinking of you

Reaching out to check on someone can make all the difference. Sometimes it’s a conversation, a text, or simply showing up that reminds someone they’re not alone.

Talking about mental health truly saves lives. 💙

September is Suicide Awareness Month, and it’s a reminder to break the silence, check in on each other, and make space for the hard conversations that matter most.

#suicidepreventionmonth #mentalhealth #mentalhealthmatters

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People can be struggling with mental health even if:

People can be struggling with mental health even if:

You can look totally “fine.”
You can smile, show up, keep working, make the meals, do all the things. People might even compliment you on how “together” you seem.

And meanwhile, inside, you might be falling apart.
That’s what people mean when they talk about “high-functioning depression” or “high-functioning anxiety.” On the outside, it can look like life is moving along. But on the inside, there might be guilt, exhaustion, despair, or just trying to hold it together moment to moment.

Depression is so much more than whether you can go to work or host a Shabbos meal for 20. Mental health struggles don’t always look the way you expect.

That’s why compassion—for others and for ourselves—isn’t just nice, it’s necessary.

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#SuicideAwarenessMonth #MentalHealthAwareness

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Reminder: It’s okay to lean on others

Reminder: It’s okay to lean on others

It takes so much strength to admit when you need help. I remember when I was dealing with all of my losses (for those of you who don’t know - I had six miscarriages), I just felt like there was no one else in the world who could understand.

And you know what - I was right. No one knew exactly how it felt.

But you know what people did know? So many people had their own hardships and pain, and had been through horrific tragedies. And even though it wasn’t exactly the same, their advice and wisdom helped get me through some really, really dark days.

But if I hadn’t reached out, I never would have gotten the support I needed. If I would have stayed in my corner, I might not have learned how other people crawled out.

It’s okay to not have all the answers. Lean on others who do.

#selfcare #infertilityjourney #pregnancyloss #jewushwomen #jewishcommunity #infertilitysupport

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Back-to-school season

Back-to-school season

Does this sound familiar?🫠

Reminder: We know this time of year is busy… but please don’t make your friends who are single/don’t have kids/don’t have as many kids as you feel less-than with comments about how stressful and crazy your life is because of your children.

#backtoschool #infertility #miscarriage #stillbirth #secondaryinfertility #jewishwomen #jewishfamily

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