Surviving the Two Week Wait
Remember to take care of yourself during the wait… even if all you really want to do is hide in bed and take a test every hour.
Mother’s Day Is Hard
Mother’s Day is hard. There’s a million questions, and barely any answers.
Who is a mother to you?
Mother’s Day Can Be Complicated
Mother’s Day can be complicated, and love is in the little things.
Mental Health Care
All of it counts. All of it matters.
Take Care of Yourself
There is so so much going on right now. It’s overwhelming beyond belief. Even in the midst of this chaos, try your best to take a moment and do something to take care of yourself.
When The Pain Feels Loud
Even on the days that seem like you’re standing still, don’t forget all the things you’re doing to move forward and through your pain.
Men are Half the Equation
Men are half the equation when it comes to making a baby…and they carry half the heartbreak too. Just because they don’t talk about it as much, doesn’t mean that they’re not aching.
How Men Deal with Fertility Stuff
We asked the I Was Supposed To Have A Baby Community how the men in their life are dealing with fertility stuff. Here are some of the responses.
Big Feelings
You’re allowed to have big feelings, even if you don’t get an award for them.
You Are Worth It
You were worth it. All of it.
Mindfulness
When the waiting feels heavy and anxiety creeps in, take a moment to pause. Breathe.
When The World Feels Heavy
When The World Feels Heavy
Try To Let Go
Try to let go of the “what ifs” and the idea that things could have happened differently.
Children’s Books
Children’s books we recommend
You Can’t Do All The Watering
You can’t keep going if you never let yourself be. Give yourself permission to soak in the love, support, and rest you deserve. Let others pour into you for a change, and watch how you flourish.
You’re Not Bothering Anyone
Let’s be real—if you think asking for help is a burden, you’re missing the point. People love being part of your journey.
It’s Okay to Lean on Others
It’s okay to not have all the answers. Lean on others who do.
Announcing A Pregnancy To Someone Going Through Infertility
Sharing your joy while honoring someone’s pain takes care and compassion.
How To Announce A Pregnancy To Someone Going Through Infertility
How To Announce A Pregnancy To Someone Going Through Infertility
I’m Not Pregnant - I’m Just Fat.
One of our followers says that this line usually shuts people up pretty fast.