Mothers day is coming
Mother's Day is hard.
For anyone navigating infertility, loss, or a complicated relationship with this holiday, it can feel like the whole world is celebrating something that still feels out of reach.
If someone in your life is struggling to build their family, make a donation in their honor by Wednesday, May 6th, and we'll send them a beautiful card on Mother's Day morning, Sunday, May 10th, with a heartfelt message.
It's a small gesture that can mean everything.
There are three card designs to choose from, and a minimum donation of $36 is all it takes. If you'd like to send a card to more than one person, you can submit the form again from the confirmation page.
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The pressure is there and real
The pressure is there, and it's real
It's okay to consciously notice it and then step back from it
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For anyone who needs to hear it:
Don't look me up and down
Don't hint at anything pregnancy-related
And certainly don't ask me anything directly
It's my body, not a billboard
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It is not just your family.
It's not just your family - so many people are surrounded by loved ones who make inappropriate comments without realizing how hurtful it is
What have you heard this holiday so far?
Sending a hug
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Quick Reminder
This also works in the middle of a meal too- you could suddenly become feverish. 😉
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Ways to set boundaries
Need a hand setting boundaries this Passover? We're with you
Here are nine ways to empower yourself by speaking up for what you need with your loved ones
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Being thankful but also sensitive
All the complaints are valid, but people also miss that they are signs of many blessings. If you are surrounded by people in a different stage of
Be thankful, and be sensitive
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You would never know
You truly truly truly never know what is going on behind closed doors or in one's heart
Be kind
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5 ways to set boundaries during Passover
You have options, even if they feel uncomfortable to consider or use
Look out for yourself - it's not selfish, it's essential
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How can we be free when…
How can you call this freedom?
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Send love, Send Support, Send Hugs
Send love
Send support
Send hugs
...to some of the people who need it most this holiday
Head to our stories and click the link to share yours anonymously
This is also a great way to send a message to all our community members in Israel, who are struggling with so much on top of the war
This community is a special corner of the internet, and we're so glad you're a part of it
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How to respond to invasive questions
Spending time with friends and family over Purim might mean you get asked some insensitive, personal questions about when you are going to have a baby…
Swipe to read some ways you can respond when Bubby asks you, “Nu… when are you going to give me a great-grandchild? You aren’t getting any younger!”
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Holding onto grief & joy
Purim is "supposed" to be happy, but that assumption can make grief feel even lonelier
This is the story of making Purim meaningful amidst grief and loss in one's own way
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Purim Triggers
Purim has real triggers for so many people in Jewish communities struggling to build their families
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Purim Survival Guide
Here is how you can make it through mostly in one piece
(at least until you can fall apart with us and others who get it)
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The Mask
Thank you to the person who shared this powerful piece on the mask they wear to get through the day and time with family when it's painful
If this resonates for you, please know that you are not alone, and you don't have to carry this alone if you don't want to anymore
Send a DM any time and click on the link in bio to find our resources and support groups
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Masking
We all wear masks, sometimes even different ones in different places
And that's okay
But just remember that until you get to know someone deeply, you may be seeing the mask they put on to get through their day
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Why is Purim so hard?
Why is Purim so hard? Let us count the ways...
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You are not alone
Not everyone felt miracles, joy, or light.
Some of us barely lit candles.
Some of us ate donuts alone.
Some of us felt invisible while everyone else posted miracles.
If you’re going through something hard and feeling hopeless, we see you.
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Testimonial about our light
One flame changed everything 🕎
Now we’re taking that energy and stretching it across the Jewish world.
We’re expanding programs, support groups, and training for leaders.
We’re ready to reach farther—if you’ll help fuel the glow.
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