Another Month, Another Heartbreak
Another month, another heartbreak. Sharing these words for everyone quietly carrying this weight.
If you’re in this fight too, you’re not alone. Holding space for all the shattered hopes, endless prayers, and unwavering strength.
My Story of Circumstantial Infertility
Thank you so much to @sam_ster_ela for sharing her circumstantial infertility story with us. We’re holding you and everyone dealing with this pain 🫂🫂🫂
Grief and the Unknown
Waiting.
Waiting.
More waiting.
For what feels like forever.
Surviving the Two Week Wait
Remember to take care of yourself during the wait… even if all you really want to do is hide in bed and take a test every hour.
Explaining TFMR
Before you judge, pause.
These parents are already carrying more than most ever will.
Mother’s Day Is Hard
Mother’s Day is hard. There’s a million questions, and barely any answers.
Who is a mother to you?
Mother’s Day Can Be Complicated
Mother’s Day can be complicated, and love is in the little things.
I Always Wanted to Be a Mother
She always knew she wanted to be a mom.
Even without a partner.
Even after loss.
It hasn’t been easy — but she’s still here, still hoping, still trying.
Mental Health Care
All of it counts. All of it matters.
Take Care of Yourself
There is so so much going on right now. It’s overwhelming beyond belief. Even in the midst of this chaos, try your best to take a moment and do something to take care of yourself.
Nice Texts
Here are some examples of texts you can send to someone who is going through a rough time. Most importantly, just keep being there for them and let them know you are thinking of them.
Quotes About Faith
We asked our IWSTHAB community how their relationships have shifted since beginning their fertility journeys—and the responses were raw, real, and deeply human.
When The Pain Feels Loud
Even on the days that seem like you’re standing still, don’t forget all the things you’re doing to move forward and through your pain.
Men are Half the Equation
Men are half the equation when it comes to making a baby…and they carry half the heartbreak too. Just because they don’t talk about it as much, doesn’t mean that they’re not aching.
How Men Deal with Fertility Stuff
We asked the I Was Supposed To Have A Baby Community how the men in their life are dealing with fertility stuff. Here are some of the responses.
Overcoming Silence
Ejaculatory dysfunction isn’t talked about enough, so we’re honored to share this story with the IWSTHAB community.
Male Factor Infertility
Fertility challenges don’t necessarily have a gender—and that men, too, carry the weight of hope, loss, and love in this journey.
This is Really Hard
“I know that it’s our problem and not his, but this is really hard.” - anonymous
Challenging Norms
Challenging norms, holding onto their values, and showing that there’s more than one way to be a family in the Orthodox world.
LGBTQ+ Family Building
The family building process can already be isolating.
In communities where there’s also a lack of understanding and support for LGBTQ+ family building, there are additional isolating factors.