A Black Mother’s Journey P2
Voices from the Community Aimee Baron Voices from the Community Aimee Baron

A Black Mother’s Journey P2

In some spaces, strength is defined by how much we can carry in silence.

But for many Black women, that "strength" can feel like a heavy requirement with an unspoken pressure to just push through.

Thank you, Aliza Bracha, for sharing your powerful voice and story. This is part 2 of 2.

@alizabracha holds a bachelor’s degree in journalism from Oakland University and a master’s in social work from Wayne State University. She is also pursuing a second master’s degree in edu from @michiganstateu in P-12 schools and postsecondary leadership & special ed. She's held leadership roles in several metro Detroit Jewish orgs and is dedicated to supporting her community through both clinical work and advocacy. She lives in Oak Park, MI with her husband, Aryeh, and their twins, Meira Chana & Shlomo Aharon.

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A Black Mother’s Journey P1
Voices from the Community Aimee Baron Voices from the Community Aimee Baron

A Black Mother’s Journey P1

In some spaces, strength is defined by how much we can carry in silence.

But for many Black women, that "strength" can feel like a heavy requirement with an unspoken pressure to just push through.

Thank you, Aliza Bracha, for sharing your powerful voice and story. This is part 1 of 2.

@alizabracha holds a bachelor’s degree in journalism from Oakland University and a master’s in social work from Wayne State University. She is also pursuing a second master’s degree in edu from @michiganstateu in P-12 schools and postsecondary leadership & special ed. She's held leadership roles in several metro Detroit Jewish orgs and is dedicated to supporting her community through both clinical work and advocacy. She lives in Oak Park, MI with her husband, Aryeh, and their twins, Meira Chana & Shlomo Aharon.

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Secrecy vs Privacy
Pregnancy Announcements Aimee Baron Pregnancy Announcements Aimee Baron

Secrecy vs Privacy

What’s the difference between secrecy and privacy?

Privacy refers to your personal boundaries about your history, thoughts, opinions, and experiences, separate from your partner and relationship. Secrecy, on the other hand, involves something that you are intentionally hiding.

In this scenario, the hiding comes because you know your news will hurt, so you think by not sharing your pregnancy, that will prevent her from finding out.

But here’s the thing.

You can’t hide a baby forever. And when she does eventually find out, she will be hurt that you didn’t share this detail of your life. She will think that you don’t care about her enough to share happy moments, even if she’s sad. She will think you don’t value her friendship.

And she will most likely never share anything sensitive with you again.

So, is the initial discomfort of sharing your news worth it?

Pregnancy announcement | be sensitive | no secrets | infertility | fertility clinic | fertility support

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Pregnancy announcement

Pregnancy announcement

Back to Basics: How am I supposed to share the news of my own pregnancy when I know my sister/friend/cousin, is experiencing infertility? I don’t want to hurt them!

We’ve complied a carousel of suggestions on how and when you should tell your person that you are pregnant.

And the last part of this is…

⭐️Don’t get upset when your person doesn’t get back to you immediately.

⭐️Please don’t be mad when she doesn’t acknowledge your pregnancy.

⭐️Don’t hold a grudge if she doesn’t come to a baby shower or bris; Your pregnancy/baby is triggering her. She’s doing what she can to survive and your job is to be her friend no matter what.

Did we miss any? Let us know in the comments...

Pregnancy announcement | infertility | fertility support | grief | what to say | how to support

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