So how long should you wait before you share that thing?

The one that you really think could help and you’re really sure no one else has told them about it already?

And you’re really sure they haven’t tried to ChatGPT for their problem already? That they don’t know how to google search?

Wait until later.

Maybe it’s not until the next time you speak. Or see each other. And then you gently say, “Hey, you know I was thinking about our conversation from last time, and I was wondering if you…”

Or maybe you don’t bring it up until they share something with you about it again.

-bottom line- the important thing is that you hold space for them when theirs breaking down. Period. Don’t try to fix them. Save your advice for sometime later.

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