This poster wishes to remain anonymous, but I’ve had many conversations with her about trying to reconcile the despair of trying (and failing) to get pregnant with another child. I felt many of these emotions when I was trying for our 4th and kept miscarrying baby after baby. I kept thinking that I had three healthy children at home and I was greedy for wanting more. My ObGyn even begged me to stop trying and be thankful for the kids I had.