Secondary Infertility and Age

This poster wishes to remain anonymous, but I’ve had many conversations with her about trying to reconcile the despair of trying (and failing) to get pregnant with another child. I felt many of these emotions when I was trying for our 4th and kept miscarrying baby after baby. I kept thinking that I had three healthy children at home and I was greedy for wanting more. My ObGyn even begged me to stop trying and be thankful for the kids I had.