I Was Supposed To Have A Baby

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Stop The Blame Game

This message could have been written by me, but instead it came in this morning from a follower. She speaks from her heart...

“I’m reading all the messages that came in and it breaks my heart.

Can we shine some light on the fact that infertility is a medical issue and is not based on who you are morally as a person?

So many people are writing in that they tried so hard to do all the ‘right thing’ (religion wise) and they feel they’re not good enough because no matter how closer to God they are, he still hasn’t answered them.

Lots of wonderful religious people have cancer, car accidents, hardship, pain.... that doesn’t make them not good enough. Why do people think if they were a better person they would have kids, have it easier?

Let’s stop the blame game, take away the shame and guilt and replace it with only love and understanding.”

Couldn’t have said it better myself.