Instead of Saying: “Why Didn’t You Just Adopt?”

Reason number 19,473,682 why saying “Why didn’t you just adopt?” or questioning anyone’s choices along their fertility journey is not okay: as a support person to your loved one, your job is to unconditionally love and support them through both their darkest and brightest times.

You may not understand their reasoning, but that’s ok. It’s their choice how to grow their family.

So next time you feel the urge to ask an invasive question when your sister/daughter/friend tells you they are moving forward with a surrogate, DON’T.

And instead say any of these options instead ❤️

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