Quick reminder that this stuff is hard. Adding outside expectations onto the pressure you already put on yourself to have a certain number of kids, at certain intervals, is EXHAUSTING.

These are some of the most common comments that people say to make you question yourself, including “You are too sensitive, you are overreacting.”

Feeling like you aren’t being taken seriously adds to the sense of isolation and loneliness that already exists from infertility, grief, and loss.

Just like how you should not allow anyone else to gaslight you and make you feel less-than and unheard, don’t speak to yourself this way!