"I had my 3 kids, but then it took awhile because of a medical reason and then an early miscarriage, before to having my 4th baby. He was born in January bh (Thank G-d). I am so grateful everyday and my life feels so full with him. This makes me even more want to support and help ppl who are struggling.... Anyhow, I wrote this piece exactly after pesach (passover) last year when I was going through a hard time."

Scroll through to read this anonymous follower's piece on secondary infertility.

So many comments will come in during the next week about family size. Hopefully this piece will be a reminder to all of you to never assume anything. Many are suffering silently.