What do you say?

A follower writes:
"My 8 year old recently said that it's even harder for her to not have a sibling because at least I have one baby (her!) and she doesn't have any! Ouch, just ouch!!"

Excuse me while I go wipe the tears streaming down my face.😭

But all of you secondary infertility mamas out there, or those of you who have a child/children but have lost babies due to miscarriage or stillbirth, what do you say to your kids when they ask when they're going to get a sibling?

It's just so hard when you have to break your child's heart, when you're trying your best to stay afloat due to your own feelings of heartache and grief.💔💔💔