Pregnancy loss is a loss regardless of the nature. 

Comments like "you must be thankful to be alive" or "at least you know you can get pregnant" are extremely painful and can undermine the true pain of the loss. 

And, at the same time, it's normal to feel all types of competing emotions while suffering pregnancy loss. It's okay to feel the deepest grief and sadness and also be thankful that you are alive following an ectopic or molar pregnancy. 

The emotions of pregnancy loss are complex. We see those of you who experienced loss or are going through it now. We are here for you and we will support you through all the phases of emotions.